Lynx to Fafa

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

The Wicked Witch from the Client

She was terrible. An absolutely horrible, nasty, witch of a person. She was dripping evil from every pore of her body. An absolute nightmare to deal with.

We held a meeting with her the other day, and from the moment she waltzed in 20 minutes late for our meeting, I could already feel the unpleasant aura filling up every space of our room. She threw a hissy fit about how she wanted more senior people to be involved, or otherwise, the meeting should be cancelled. It was a good thing that the person who called for the meeting remained firm, and handled her very well too I must say.

Are people born nasty, where its just second nature to them to be mean and rude to everyone around them? Surely they know how their words and actions affect others?

Or are they just naturally oblivious to everyone and everything else, and that the whole world revolves around them. Everything should be done to their liking, how they want it. In short, its all about them.

Do they even have to try to be this unpleasant? Does it take much effort in being this mean to everyone around them?

And why, why are they such terrible people in the first place? Were they brought up in a household so devoid of joy and happiness, that they simply do not have it within themselves to be even remotely civil to others (and we're not even talking about being nice here). Just civil, polite and proper.

Maybe they were beaten at home when they were kids, bullied at school, where everyone poked fun at them. Maybe they grew up in an environment where they were used to being belittled, and everything that they said or did were laughed at.

Could that be the reason why people are so mean and horrible to their fellow beings? Gee, if it is, I almost feel sorry for them. But then, I remember how unpleasant that meeting was, that I struggle to even wish no ill-will towards that monster of a person.

At best, I hope I never see her again.

Wednesday, December 05, 2007

2 Englishmen, a Brazilian, a Russian and a Norwegian

I just did something interesting a few days back.... it has been 2 and 1/2 years or so i think, since i last corresponded with some of my coursemates from my Masters course in Southampton, UK.... and so i thought i'd drop them a line via e-mail, wishing them early christmas and new year greetings, as well as asking how they're getting on....

I only mailed 5 of them, of which 2 of them are English, 1 Brazilian, 1 Russian and 1 Norwegian.... the 2 Englishmen have been travelling quite a bit, and one of them had a new addition to the family, a baby girl...thrilling news actually.... while the Brazilian, who had married an English school teacher shortly after I left Southampton, recently divorced her after a 5 year marriage, sad news indeed for such jovial and fun-loving guy, as only Brazilians can be..... the Russian bloke, the coursemate I was closest to is still unmarried, but now has a wealth of experience in a variety of areas, probably due to his father's many business interest areas in Moscow.... The Norweign, the only girl in this group is now pregnant, and was telling us of how she had moved from London back to her hometown, and has actually joined the advisory arm of EY.... and even better still, the EY practice there allows her to take a year off!!! and if she wanted to, she could split that year with her fiance (yes, i'm always amazed at how easily these people make babies without getting married 1st!!), but as he is self-employed, she gets that whole year off to herself taking care of herself, and the baby when the time comes..... How I wish the EY office here would be as kind.....

Its great to keep in touch with these people, and such a pity we are all so far apart from each other (me especially being away from them)... hehe, its also ironic that they expect me to be the one pop over for a visit, being the furthest and all.... ahaha, though i would LOVE to oblige them.... one day.....

its hard to concentrate....

yes it sure is, what with it being the last month of the year, you'd think most of the hard work was done in the previous 11 months, you're looking forward to the xmas and new year break, and you need to utilise whatever leave balance you have left..... working during this month is an absolute chore, and i cant wait for my leave to start....

of course there are still things to do, deliverables to complete and deadlines to meet, but once the holiday mood kicks in...and yeah, its still early dec, but i'm already thinking of hari raya haji, followed by christmas, and then new year.....

i'm looking forward to the return of many friends working overseas, mainly London and Australia.... ppl i've not met up with in a while.... it just adds to the anticipation..... and also to get away from all the work.... it would be nice to wake up and not have to get up and drag myself to work.... and face all of them horrid ppl (ok, not all of them are horrible, but still)

so i find myself facebooking (yeah, its probably my fav online activity now), or chatting, or writing mails..... yeah yeah, i'm still professional enough to actually complete what i need to get done.... its just the enthusiasm for the work isnt there anymore.... enthusiasm..... work..... seems to mix as well as oil and water does.....

anyway, i'd better get back to work, some workpapers to review.... while looking at my watch, thinking i can go in about 40 minutes from now.....